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i’m an introvert, shy, anxious, socially awkward, and clumsy. what a great combination.

22 hours ago

i’m an introvert, shy, anxious, socially awkward, and clumsy. what a great combination.

Hopefully my dad will agree to getting the dog

23 hours ago

Hopefully my dad will agree to getting the dog

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Ninth day of Inktober

They're Edelgard and Byleth ✨

Which is your favourite version?

I hope you like them💙

23 hours ago

Ninth day of Inktober They're Edelgard and Byleth ✨ Which is your favourite version? I hope you like them💙

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she’s that perfect combination of extremely judgemental and supportive
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23 hours ago

she’s that perfect combination of extremely judgemental and supportive

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Sweet hug :3

Artist’s twitter @yesiktz95: https://mobile.twitter.com/yesiktz95

23 hours ago

Sweet hug :3 Artist’s twitter @yesiktz95: https://mobile.twitter.com/yesiktz95

Aromanticism is as beautiful and varied as leaves and I for one think that’s very cool of us

23 hours ago

Aromanticism is as beautiful and varied as leaves and I for one think that’s very cool of us

Sometimes I say self loathing things to my therapist and he looks at me dead in the eyes before saying “You fucking moron.” and tbh same

Me: I think I don’t exist.

Therapist: Listen, you do exist, and if you didn’t, someone would have to create you because the world would be a much sadder place.

Me: Jerome, how dare you saying something so sweet when I’m dissociating.

Me: Honestly, (thing that is totally fucked up for any ‘sane’ person) is normal, right?

Therapist: No.

Me: Wow.

Therapist: You’re just a fucked up bitch.

Me: I do agree with the fucked up bitch part.

Therapist: That’s a start!

Me: I guess he’s still my friend?

Therapist: Considering what you told me and how much you wanna beat him to death, he’s not. You pretty much hate him despite knowing him for years.

Me:

Me: Why did I need to come here to realize that.

Therapist: Because that’s my job to help you to understand some stuff. Also because you’re way too kind and you would let someone punch you in the guts and still consider them as your friend while they stab you.

Me: I don’t need that kind of call out, Jerome.

Me: Hey, I brought you coffee. And croissants too, but I ate them. *puts Starbucks coffee in front of him*

Therapist: Oh that’s nice!!... Oh my name is on it!!

Me: Yeah!!

Therapist: It’s wholesome but... *very confused and silently*... How do I drink it?

Me, not being able to come to my appointment and having to call him: I’m sorry, it’s all my fault, I’m so so so sorr-

Therapist: I dare you to say sorry one more time. I dare you.

Therapist: Hey I wanna show you this super funny image I found the other day.

Me: What-

Therapist: *turns his screen and show me THIS* 

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Me: 

Me: Jerome.

Therapist: You went to the gaypride?

Me: Yeah, I went.

Therapist: Was it something you enjoyed?

Me: Mh. Yeah. Sorta.

Therapist: Did you see some bears?

Me:

Me: Jerome wh-

Therapist: That’s the only term I know outside of the LGTB one, I wanted to use it. 

Therapist: Are you sure you’re not becoming roommate with (name) because of pity? Kinda sacrificing yourself?

Me: No, I want it!!

Therapist: Finally, you’re not forcing yourself for the others! And you’re doing something you want! I’m proud of you!

Me: You’re more of a dad than my own father.

Therapist: That’s not very hard.

Me: I always wondered, are you queer?

Therapist: I am not.

Me: Ooh.

Therapist: Or am I?

Me: Ooh!

As an update, Jerome gave my appointment to someone’s else today so we were both in the waiting room, confused and he walked in, patted my head and said sorry but honestly it was hilarious.

The secretary came to tell me that Jerome actually forgot to write me down on the appointment list.

This is a 100% normal situation with Jerome as my Therapist.

As an addition, more than half of my friends want Jerome to adopt me and refer to him as “Therapist dad”.

He’s aware of it and think it’s hilarious.

Me, after complaining for the 25 times about my birth father: Idk if you noticed, but I’m full of anger against him.

Therapist: Oh, really, I never noticed. You know, you should turn that anger into indifference. It would help you.

Me: Unholy gods, I wish it was me.

Therapist: You know, people will still love you even if you don’t offer them things all the time. You don’t have to do that.

Me: What??

Therapist: Why don’t you send a mail to your psychiatrist when you have a bad mood swing?

Me: Like what? ‘Hey Joël wassup, I’ve been very suicidal lately last night I wanted to die. Hope you have rad vacations and the weed is good save some good kush for me, kissy kissy.’ ?

Therapist: Exactly.

Me: You’re as bad as me with human interactions Jerome, y’know.

Me, heavily dissociating: I don’t exist-

Therapist: Can I touch you to prove you that you do?

Me: Dinner first.

Therapist:

Therapist: Damien, you moron.

Therapist: You need vacations.

Me: I’m broke.

Therapist: Oh yeah.

Therapist: You still need vacations tho.

Me: Jerome, I am still broke.

Me, by text: Hey, you just walk by me!

Therapist, by text: Oh sorry. I didn’t see you.

Therapist, by text: Wait. Were you at the tattoo shop?

Me, by text, totally at the tattoo shop: You have no proof.

For a bit of context here: Around two months ago I went to a friend’s who happened the live on the same street as Jerome, which I didn’t know. He was really surprised to see me and came to check on me, asking me why I was here with a bit of concern on his voice. And this take place earlier this month:

Therapist: So your friend lives in the same street than I?

Me: Yes. Town’s short I guess.

Therapist: Were you really going to your friend...?

Me: Yes?? Why else would I be here?

Therapist: A lot of drug deals happen in this street and I see often teenagers and young adults coming and buy stuffs. I was a bit worried for you.

Me, at 2pm: I’m sorry I’m going to be late!

Therapist: Your appointment was this morning at 11:30am, Damien.

Me:

Me: What.

Jerome is still not aware of his fame and idk how to announce him.

Therapist; What’s up with you and wanting domestic rats.

Me: I’m gonna get a rat and call him Jerome just to piss you off.

Therapist:

Therapist: How dare you.

Therapist: Weed doesn’t do much on me and I must admit I’m kinda disappointed.

Me:

Therapist: Do you smoke?

Me: Jerome.

On hard days I wonder how Jerome is doing

He’s doing fine, last time he shown me his fav pic of a red panda which is this one

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I FOUND IT I FOUND IT I FUCKING FOUND IT AAAAAAAH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HAPPY THIS MADE ME FEEL

It’s really amazing how happy people get when they find this post omg

Always reblog Jerome.

Is he now aware of his fame?

After months, he is, and he just told me “Haha, this is funny. I’m happy it’s helping people!”

I think he doesn’t realize that he’s known *worldwide*

Jerome is adorable and I hope he knows this.

23 hours ago

Sometimes I say self loathing things to my therapist and he looks at me dead in the eyes before saying “You fucking moron.” and...

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We love a treat from the coffee shop!

1 day ago

We love a treat from the coffee shop!

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Christoph Eberl | Spring

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Christoph Eberl | Spring

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Cat-erpillar.

1 day ago

Cat-erpillar.

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post-war edeleths

1 day ago

post-war edeleths

ads don’t work on me b/c i’m poor 

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exactly.

1 day ago

ads don’t work on me b/c i’m poor 

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throwback to when my family left me alone the day after i got my wisdom teeth removed and all i did was play super mario 3D...

1 day ago

throwback to when my family left me alone the day after i got my wisdom teeth removed and all i did was play super mario 3D...

Your life isn't emptier for being aro. You're fully complete on your own and your aro experience is as rich as any other. Just do what makes you happy.

1 day ago

Your life isn't emptier for being aro. You're fully complete on your own and your aro experience is as rich as any other. Just...

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more doodles from tweeter
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more doodles from tweeter

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I did something for… Pan and bi people. 
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I did something for… Pan and bi people. 

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The one who been lying this whole time is him.
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The one who been lying this whole time is him.

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One of the most important things you can teach your kids is when and how to say no to authority figures.
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One of the most important things you can teach your kids is when and how to say no to authority figures.

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Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding.   From raindovemodel
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Wow. The patience, kindness and calm communication skills. Outstanding. From raindovemodel

facebook post: *generic message* “i bet 99% of you won’t share this”

baby boomer:

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facebook post: *generic message* “i bet 99% of you won’t share this” baby boomer:

Is it weird that I love not being in cousin’s standards of “pretty” and therefor can’t be a part of her “group”

Oh I hate her

2 days ago

Is it weird that I love not being in cousin’s standards of “pretty” and therefor can’t be a part of her “group”

Is it weird that I love not being in cousin’s standards of “pretty” and therefor can’t be a part of her “group”

2 days ago

Is it weird that I love not being in cousin’s standards of “pretty” and therefor can’t be a part of her “group”

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The hungrier one is the more satisfying one’s dinner.
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2 days ago

The hungrier one is the more satisfying one’s dinner.

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Pure perfection…

2 days ago

Pure perfection…

actually there were 0 time travellers on the Titanic, because the time cops have an entire outpost to safeguard that one particular point in history. every rookie spends a least a month on Titanic duty and they all complain bitterly about it since it is, essentially, the time travel equivalent of being the guard who has to stop tourists from licking the Liberty Bell.

listen. LISTEN. there's going to be somebody, maybe several somebodies, at the travel hub who's dressed nice and knows all the right words and swears back and forth that they can sell you the credentials that will get you into the Titanic's timespace. they'll sell you IDs that pass you and your friends off as 23rd century history students or, worse, some 24th century brats who will go crying to their corporate sponsors if you ruin their paid vacation.

the IDs will look very impressive. they will not come cheap. they will not help you.

there's no checkpoint to bluff your way through and nobody who wants to hear you try. if you try to time travel anywhere near the Titanic, whether you try to board with all the other passengers or appear on the boat in the middle of the voyage, you will get slammed directly into a whitespace dragnet - a time bubble, in layman's terms.

and you will be surrounded by at least a dozen time cops, all of whom are bored and cranky and very eager to flex their newfound authority, which means they will absolutely detain you for as long as possible and insist on giving you a lecture when a slap on the wrist would do. if you talk back they might double your fine or even suspend your chronal permissions for up to a year.

and then they'll send you back to the hub in your period piece clothing that will suddenly look very stupid, and the guys who sold you the ideas will have fucked off to 1998 by then and you won't have a chance in hell of getting your money back, and what I'm saying is that it's not worth it, dude. it's just not worth it.

This is too specific to not be from experience

what are you, a time cop?

Okay but what if one wanted to travel back to save the Library of Alexandria?

2 days ago

actually there were 0 time travellers on the Titanic, because the time cops have an entire outpost to safeguard that one...

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☾ the world turned scarlet, without you…

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☾ the world turned scarlet, without you…

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vannessa but soft™️. sometimes you’re just in the right place at the wrong time??? kinda unhappy with her hairstyle and turtle neck but oh well, soft goth time

2 days ago

vannessa but soft™️. sometimes you’re just in the right place at the wrong time??? kinda unhappy with her hairstyle and turtle...

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I can’t wait for this family to be reunited in s4  bonus (new part of the fam)
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I can’t wait for this family to be reunited in s4 bonus (new part of the fam)

Everyone: Omg listen to this amazing podcast!!

Me, a person who can’t pay attention to anything that doesn’t have visuals for more than 3 minutes without being bored/distracted:

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Hi! ADHD kid here. I know this feeling well! And because I’ve thought about it a LOT, I have some suggestions

In order not to get bored, I have to have four conditions met

Visual engagement (interesting to look at) Audio engagement (interesting to listen to) Mental/critical engagement (interesting to think about) Tactile engagement (interesting to fidget with)

Sometimes a medium will fulfill all of them!

Video games are great because they’ve got their own visuals and music, they’ve got little tasks for me, and you operate them with the buttons or joysticks or keys or what have you. That’s all four boxes checked!

Some activities are NOT great. They miss boxes, or only partially fill my meter for engagement in some categories.

Sitting in a classroom at school requires me to sit still, and unless the teacher/professor has a good powerpoint there’s not much to look at. And maybe the lecture is review so it’s not even that mentally challenging. At least, not much that won’t distract me. But then you can add little tasks in to fill the gaps — if I doodle in class while I’m taking notes, I have something for my hands to do and something I like to look at! And it’ll fill up the rest of my interest in the “thought” category.

I almost never listen to podcasts without doing something else.

Podcasts for me are like lectures; they fill up my audio meter, and most of my interest meter. But I’m still lacking visuals and touch. Personally, I find that drawing can actually take away from a story unless I’m really just doodling little flowers or something. But here are some things that have worked for me!

Gardening - digging, prepping soil, weeding, picking out the rocks from the dirt, pruning, watering - all the gardening tasks require a lot of visual and tactile engagement, and a relatively small amount of focused attention. Knitting, crocheting, embroidering - VERY tactile and visual activities, and unless you’re following a difficult or unfamiliar pattern you can just kinda do it. You maybe won’t make a tapestry, but a simple striped scarf or beanie hat will be alright for this. Coloring books! I have this book of mandalas to color in, which is great for doodling while listening to a story Video games! As long as they don’t have dialogue or things to read. I couldn’t play Bloodborne, or hit a story milestone in Skyrim, but like, the dungeon crawl part of Skyrim, or a game like Journey where there’s not much text, is great! I listened to the TTAZZ episodes while clearing Dwemer ruins Taking a walk, if you’re somewhere you’d feel safe walking with headphones. If you don’t feel super safe walking alone, maybe get a couple friends with a similar issue together and have the hiking/podcasting equivalent of a silent disco

And a final note of things to avoid

Text or reading, as mentioned above - I can’t scroll Tumblr while podcasting because the language processin part of ya brain can either read or listen not both. Can’t read a book, nor write, cant hold a conversation without missing things Watching tv, or generally trying to take in another story. I can only focus on one story at a time Chores, homework, paperwork. For me, cleaning my room mostly means sorting through a lot of old papers and drawings, and it distracts me and often, again, involves reading. I’m better off listening to music while I do these things

Now go forth and listen to some podcasts!!

another thing you can do is lots of podcasts have transcripts that you can follow along with! i struggle with processing things auditorily too so not only does this check the visual box (looking at words) but it also checks the fidgety box if you scroll along with it and make the words bounce

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Everyone: Omg listen to this amazing podcast!! Me, a person who can’t pay attention to anything that doesn’t have visuals for...

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It’s the devil that’s trying to hold me down.
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It’s the devil that’s trying to hold me down.

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A real, actual, I-am-not-fucking-lying-to-you-this-truly-happened moment from the Christmas special Rapsittie Street Kids:...

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A real, actual, I-am-not-fucking-lying-to-you-this-truly-happened moment from the Christmas special Rapsittie Street Kids:...

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Oh no, I’ve fallen for another Trash Ship.

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Oh no, I’ve fallen for another Trash Ship.

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edeleth doodles
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edeleth doodles

Family/home life has been extremely stressful lately so my fucking ocd has been acting up. Loovveee that.

2 days ago

Family/home life has been extremely stressful lately so my fucking ocd has been acting up. Loovveee that.