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Jo ⚢ 21 ⚢ he/him disabled nonbinary butch lesbian

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hi i made a redbubble for fun with some of my disabled lgbt symbols + some other stuff for fun if anyone wants some [LINK]
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hi i made a redbubble for fun with some of my disabled lgbt symbols + some other stuff for fun if anyone wants some [LINK]

Translation: “wait what? what are you waiting for? eh? curry? did you make curry (in the bathtub)?” “ya, want some?” “yeah”

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Translation: “wait what? what are you waiting for? eh? curry? did you make curry (in the bathtub)?” “ya, want some?” “yeah”

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Why hasn’t this been done before?

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Why hasn’t this been done before?

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feel free to share + repost these images. stand with serbia. (note: the election was parliamentary, not presidential.)
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feel free to share + repost these images. stand with serbia. (note: the election was parliamentary, not presidential.)

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Billi speaks. (via billispeaks)

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Billi speaks. (via billispeaks)

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since i haven’t seen this floating around tumblr i figured i’d post it!! the link on the tweet is broken but this one works too ...

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since i haven’t seen this floating around tumblr i figured i’d post it!! the link on the tweet is broken but this one works too ...

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LET HIM KNOW 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

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LET HIM KNOW 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

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My conversations with children

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My conversations with children

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icons of plushies !
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icons of plushies !

love intentionally! organically! genuinely!

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love intentionally! organically! genuinely!

man all those posts that are like "chore incompetence from ur partner is just a manipulation tactic" sure hit differently when you got a spouse with adhd who literally cannot be aware of the fact that there's garbage on the couch

anyway my fellow neurotypicals please stop assuming people can't just be bad at things in ways that seem ridiculous to you

I fully agree with this but also as an ADHDer I have some advice for other ADHDers who want to live harmoniously with partners/ friends.

Once someone makes you aware of an issue, take steps to try and make it better in the moment but also long-term. Putting the emotional labour on your partner to tell you to do things kinda sucks. For example, here's my list of things I try to do every day to help avoid that too much with my flatmate.

Before I go to bed:

- I straighten couch cushions because my flatmate likes this and it's not that hard

- I check the apartment for miscilaneous glasses/bowls and wash them

- I put any clutter on the main table away

Before I go to work:

- I check the bins and if something needs taking out, I take it out

- I check all the doors etc are locked and I have my keys

Unlike neurotypicals we can't trust that we will notice when something needs doing because trash-blindness is totally a thing (another post for another day). It is still on us, not our partners, to find ways around this though. Building checking-for-specific-trash/clutter into your routine can really help. You can set alarms if you need to. Also occasionally ask if there is any tasks you could be doing that would make living together better.

Finally, don't be hard on yourself if you forget sometimes - it legit IS difficult to do some "simple" things because our brains work differently, and that's not silly. The important thing is that we keep trying.

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man all those posts that are like "chore incompetence from ur partner is just a manipulation tactic" sure hit differently when...

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Hey y’all, I’m Claudia Edison, and when I’m not drawing stupid metal gear jokes for tumblr dot com I’m a community organizer for...
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Hey y’all, I’m Claudia Edison, and when I’m not drawing stupid metal gear jokes for tumblr dot com I’m a community organizer for...

Reminder that it’s never too late to seek help or therapy or medication for yourself.

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Reminder that it’s never too late to seek help or therapy or medication for yourself.

now THIS is the emoji is for when ur a cat and wearing a funny little hat <|:3

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her buddy!

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now THIS is the emoji is for when ur a cat and wearing a funny little hat <|:3

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I did a little non-CIT build yesterday, just as practice~~  It’s done in BlueNerd’s tuscany/italian countrside style, which I’m...
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I did a little non-CIT build yesterday, just as practice~~ It’s done in BlueNerd’s tuscany/italian countrside style, which I’m...

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EMERGENCY IN NARMM/ MELBOURNE (AUSTRALIA) RIGHT NOW! LOCAL GOVT AND POLICE ARE UNFAIRLY TARGETING COMMUNITIES LIVING IN PUBLIC...
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EMERGENCY IN NARMM/ MELBOURNE (AUSTRALIA) RIGHT NOW! LOCAL GOVT AND POLICE ARE UNFAIRLY TARGETING COMMUNITIES LIVING IN PUBLIC...

lesbians expressing joy in being a lesbian is a good thing, and isn’t inherently condemning the experiences of anyone else. it’s a good thing to be happy to be a lesbian!

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lesbians expressing joy in being a lesbian is a good thing, and isn’t inherently condemning the experiences of anyone else. it’s...

APPALACHIAN BAIL FUNDS

if you can, please take the time to donate to these bail funds in appalachia, or at least reblog. appalachia is a deeply impoverished part of this country and these people could use all the help you can give. this post includes links for cities that may not be in appalachia but another part of the state is. this is by no means comprehensive. if you have any links to funds from these states feel free to reply with a link, especially if they are for virginia, west virginia, or maryland. please do not hesitate to tell me if any of these are fake.

ALABAMA:

montgomery bail out local organizer star robb (tweets from birmingham DSA confirming this) is bailing people out in hoover and birmingham, venmo: @/starrobb, cashapp: $StarRobb etowah county’s freedom fund (twitter link) paypal is here huntsville paypal

GEORGIA:

atlanta solidarity fund support #justiceforgeorgefloyd protestors in atlanta messiah young and taniyah pilgrim bail money, goes toward two black people who were attacked by police in their car athens freedom fund

KENTUCKY:

louisville community lexington bail

MARYLAND:

baltimore action legal team

MISSISSIPI:

mississippi bail fund collective bail fund for zach borenstein, a man who was arrested during protests in mississippi on may 30th (excess funds will be going to the mississippi bail fund collective)

NEW YORK:

emergency release fund: new york city, which is specifically focused on trans people OAR of tompkins county brooklyn community bail–as of 5/30/2020 they are asking people to direct their donations elsewhere the bronx freedom fund may 2020 buffalo liberty fund rochester cashapp: $BLMRoc

NORTH CAROLINA:

take action chapel hill NC community bail fund of durham charlotte uprising alamance county forsyth county asheville fayetteville greensboro

OHIO:

columbus freedom fund’s (twitter link) paypal is here canton/akron BLM cleveland (twitter link) paypal is here cincinnati bail–for this one, you need to click the amount you want to donate and then pick “cincinnati bail fund”

PENNSYLVANIA:

lancaster bail fund for #blacklivesmatter–as of 6/2/2020 lancaster has met their goal and is no longer asking for donations bukit bail fund of pittsburgh dauphin county philadelphia community bail philadelphia bail fund–as of 6/2/2020 they have met their goal and are asking people to donate elsewhere pittsburgh aftercare jail support

SOUTH CAROLINA:

columbia bail (twitter link), cashapp: $SodaCityBail; they also have a separate cashapp for money that goes toward supplies: $PSLColumbiaSC charleston, SC protestor fund

TENNESSEE:

nashville bail mid-south peace and justice center (memphis), cashapp: $OfficialBLMMemphis just city memphis hamilton county knoxville venmo: @/endthemoneybail-knoxville, memo: “BLM”

VIRGINIA:

richmond community bail roanoke bail

WEST VIRGINIA:

BLM west virginia

OTHERS:

appalachian feminist coalition bail fund, although they are encouraging donations to the aforementioned group in knoxville, tennessee the bail project also operates in numerous states across the country, including those that are in appalachia

please pay attention to what is going on in these states, especially the smaller ones. do not let it slip by just because it isn’t happening in a bigger city. again, if people find more i will be adding to this post.

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APPALACHIAN BAIL FUNDS if you can, please take the time to donate to these bail funds in appalachia, or at least reblog....

to blame your racism on your autism is counter intuitive and reverses progress the autistic community has been making for years.

your autism is a part of you. it is not some part of your brain you can just scoop out, or something someone put in there and made you the way that you are. it is you. there is no point where autism ends and your brain begins. it is just as much a part of you as your natural abilities and weaknesses are, your memories, your hair colour and your height.

that is why saying things like, "i know he's in there somewhere" about your autistic child is bad. a child hasn't been stolen from a parent by the autism monster, having autism IS what makes their kid who he is. you all seem to be able to grasp that much.

so when people say, "yes, well, a trait of autism is to say horrible things sometimes! it's just a part of our inability to understand social settings!", it's just ridiculous. yes, sure it does. and that's why you have to take responsibility for it. because "autism" is not seperate to you. your autism did not say a racist thing at the dinner table, YOU did. because you are autistic. denying this is directly reversing progress, the fight by all your autistic siblings-in-arms and those autistic people who came before you who have been fighting to be seen as who they are. the idea that autism is seperate to us is literally rhetoric people use to argue that we can be "cured".

so don't use your autism as an excuse. it is you. you said that. work on yourself.

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yes! i would be really grateful if white autistic people reblogged it and/or took it into account, actually.

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to blame your racism on your autism is counter intuitive and reverses progress the autistic community has been making for years.

if i ever say yeas its not a typo im referencing this

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if i ever say yeas its not a typo im referencing this

Bnha is the paw patrol of anime

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Bnha is the paw patrol of anime

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GOD so many quotable lines from this such as  “Ew yucky… that is gunk”  “It is just potatoes”  “Not the problem I was expecting,...

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GOD so many quotable lines from this such as “Ew yucky… that is gunk” “It is just potatoes” “Not the problem I was expecting,...