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11 hours ago

i am literally in love with ur writing! i just read all of your fics for the 20 millionth time and i never get tired of them. i...

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Juno Birch for Lazy Oaf
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Juno Birch for Lazy Oaf

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John Keats, “Letter to Fanny Browne,” 8 July 1819

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John Keats, “Letter to Fanny Brawne,” 8 July 1819

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Everybody knows this, we don’t really hangout that much.
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22 hours ago

Everybody knows this, we don’t really hangout that much.

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ENOLA HOLMES (2020)
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ENOLA HOLMES (2020)

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Katya for Trixie Cosmetics x Katya: Red Scare
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Katya for Trixie Cosmetics x Katya: Red Scare

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Could you draw me a toad or frog? It can be really small and simple, I just wanted to request a small pick-me-up!

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Luke Gilford spent four years immersing himself in LGBTQ+ rodeo culture – and discovered a world where steer-roping meets...
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Luke Gilford spent four years immersing himself in LGBTQ+ rodeo culture – and discovered a world where steer-roping meets...

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UNHhhh Ep. 128: Procrastination
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UNHhhh Ep. 128: Procrastination

I haven’t been able to get @katiehoughton​​ ‘s imagery out of my mind..

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(From: Head Underwater ch. 2 ;0)

2 days ago

I haven’t been able to get @katiehoughton​​ ‘s imagery out of my mind.. (From: Head Underwater ch. 2 ;0)

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Good Will Hunting (1997) “We get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds.”

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Good Will Hunting (1997) “We get to choose who we let into our weird little worlds.”

broke: being bi means being attracted to every woman you meet and one (1) man

woke: being bi means being attracted to dumbasses, villains, and people who respect women

3 days ago

broke: being bi means being attracted to every woman you meet and one (1) man woke: being bi means being attracted to...

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Tea time, Erika Lee Sears
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Tea time, Erika Lee Sears

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Jaida looking stunning on her instagram (I don’t know how I missed these) .

📸: @guysandqueens

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3 days ago

Jaida looking stunning on her instagram (I don’t know how I missed these) . 📸: @guysandqueens

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“You and I went so long in our friendship without ever touching, yet I always felt attuned to you”
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“You and I went so long in our friendship without ever touching, yet I always felt attuned to you”

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“Her name is Mildred. She haunts me.”   ↪ Ratched (Netflix)
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“Her name is Mildred. She haunts me.” ↪ Ratched (Netflix)

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This home in Sweden has such lovely vintage decor ideas.   I like the darker gray contrast with the white, and the cabinet...

5 days ago

This home in Sweden has such lovely vintage decor ideas.  I like the darker gray contrast with the white, and the cabinet...

In my opinion ? We should all be able to glow. Just a little bit. Just for a little while. Just maybe have a little bioluminescence. Just some light. As a treat.

5 days ago

In my opinion ? We should all be able to glow. Just a little bit. Just for a little while. Just maybe have a little...

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you are_myflower
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you are_myflower

5 days ago

INCOMING!!! *Airdrops Hug* Please give indication that your ordered product has arrived to you in a condition to your...

someone airdrop me a hug a mf going through alot

5 days ago

someone airdrop me a hug a mf going through alot

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Katya’s IG story 9/19/20
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Katya’s IG story 9/19/20

on every level except physical I am a pumpkin

6 days ago

on every level except physical I am a pumpkin

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Oh my god… they were right. I’m a homo.  But I’m a Cheerleader (1999) dir. Jamie Babbit
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Oh my god… they were right. I’m a homo. But I’m a Cheerleader (1999) dir. Jamie Babbit

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My biggest cinematic pet peeve is instant intramuscular injections.
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My biggest cinematic pet peeve is instant intramuscular injections.

7 days ago

My country has been put in quarantine again, and somehow I've stumbled upon rewatchng Gilmore Girls to pass the time. Naturally...

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Bare bones - Based on a  Lavaleaf Scorpion Fish 

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Bare bones - Based on a  Lavaleaf Scorpion Fish 

8 days ago

omg this is fun, i have a few if that's okay? stars, pillow, sea, sweat?

8 days ago

Hands and flowers? For the wip thing. Tbh I'm excited for whatever you're writing💕

8 days ago

Hi Conny, sorry to hear the last few weeks have been pretty rubbish. There's not much I can do via ask, except say I love your...

the past few weeks have really been the universe looking me right in the eyes as it continues to fuck me over in new and inventive ways

8 days ago

the past few weeks have really been the universe looking me right in the eyes as it continues to fuck me over in new and...

People don’t tell you when you’re young that it’s not always easy to tell that you’re a lesbian.

For one thing, they always make it seem like lack of attraction will feel like obvious repulsion instead of apathy or discomfort. If the thought of dating or sleeping with men doesn’t make you queasy, then you can’t be a lesbian! You’re at least bi.

For another, womanhood is constant discomfort. When you’re dating a boy, are you uncomfortable because your clothes are uncomfortable? The makeup you’re wearing? Your constant negative feelings about your body? All 3? The way any of these things make him look at you? The pressure to have sex (regardless of it being with a man)? The pressure to not have sex (regardless of it being with a man)? The distinct feeling you’re not really being seen or listened to? Or are you uncomfortable because it’s a boy you’re dating? Or (likely) some combination of these? Will you even /recognize/ the discomfort when you’ve lived in it so long and when there’s the counter-feeling of being perceived as normal and socially acceptable which sometimes masks it?

Trying to pick apart what’s causing these feelings is so hard. Is it a real crush or did you just pick a boy to feel normal? Do you want /him/ to kiss you or just to have your first kiss?

Often the thing that frees us is loving women and recognizing how different it feels. But even that gets complicated! Internalized homophobia can make you feel shitty too.

So, if you’re a lesbian who used to date or sleep with men, you’re so normal. There’s such an intense pressure to be with men that it’s amazing any of us ever figured it out.

If you’re a trans lesbian congratulations! Reckoning with gender and figuring out if you’re a lesbian is doubly hard and something us cis lesbians will never fully comprehend.

If you’re questioning whether you might be a lesbian, listen to yourself and your body. See if you can distinguish between feeling good and feeling approved of; between the causes of discomfort. And, if you’re really lost but know in your heart of hearts you just wish you were a lesbian, you probably are. Embrace it. We love you just as you are.

8 days ago

People don’t tell you when you’re young that it’s not always easy to tell that you’re a lesbian. For one thing, they always make...

INVENTING NEW FORMS OF TERRIBLE WOMEN. AWFUL WOMEN JUST THE FUCKING WORST. AND THEY'RE IN LOVE TOO IF YOU CAN BELIEVE IT.

8 days ago

INVENTING NEW FORMS OF TERRIBLE WOMEN. AWFUL WOMEN JUST THE FUCKING WORST. AND THEY'RE IN LOVE TOO IF YOU CAN BELIEVE IT.