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12 minutes ago

Someone tried to accuse me of being a radfem

17 minutes ago

Someone tried to accuse me of being a radfem

Antis and pro shippers are NOT “equally toxic”. Antis will try to use anecdotal evidence of “Look, this one shipper finally snapped and was rude to me after I falsely called them a pedophile/abuser/bigot (and they’re probably a survivor so that’s VERY triggering) and called them gross/nasty/worthless and tried to police their thoughts! This proves they are equally toxic, haha!” but this is an egregious false equivalency that borders on victim blaming. The anti community is inherently abusive, the goal of criminalizing thoughts is inherently abusive and a direct threat to real people. Antis are the ones attacking other people, the pro-shipping movement is a defense against bullying and censorship. Pro shippers aren’t forcing anything on anyone, we aren’t saying that anyone has to like and read dark fiction, antis are the ones saying that people have to like the same things as them. People defending themselves against an abusive group will never be equal to the abusive group.

And not only is the antis’ goal inherently abusive, but abusive tactics of shaming and dogpiling are the only things antis have because their community is based on the completely false idea that “problematic” fanfiction causes real world harm; there is no scientific evidence at all for this claim. It as much baseless fear-mongering as “Video games cause mass shootings”, they are literally the same concept and neither have any basis at all in proven evidence. The only thing that antis care about is their own personal disgust, if they dislike something then they think everyone has to feel the same way and they will attack anyone who doesn’t for having the wrong thoughts.

Another manipulative tactic that antis are infamous for using to make it appear like pro-shippers are the toxic ones is calling things “pedophilia” or “child porn” or other loaded language that don’t fit the legal or psychological definition of those things. So, instead of saying “This person draws fanart of a character who is technically 16 in the series” they will say “THIS PEDOPHILE IS DEFENDING CHILD PORN!!!”. So that people who are ignorant of how antis work will read that and go “Omg, I can’t believe people are defending child porn.” not realizing the actual context of what they’re saying. Don’t fall for this, antis love to fear monger and make all kinds of loaded claims of “This is sooo dangerous omg stay safe” with no evidence of how that’s the case other than calling it “gross” and “nasty” 50000 times because those are the only adjectives antis know and maybe doing some obnoxious typing quirks and cutesy emojis because that helps disguise their pro-censorship propaganda.

The bottom line is that Pro-Shippers advocate that everyone has a right to explore what they want in fiction and tagging correctly so that everyone’s boundaries are respected, pro-shippers are advocating for freedom of thought and consent of the reader; whereas antis have no respect at all for consent because their express purpose is to force people to think like them and only enjoy the fiction antis allow them to by calling them names and shaming them and claiming their thoughts could possibly hurt someone somewhere with no evidence. Not to mention how often antis literally use the word bullying and say it’s good and cool like talk to me when you see pro-shippers regularly glorify bullying:

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These people make it sound like they’re defending their fucking baby from gunfire but remember that they’re literally talking about obscure fanfictions that depict dark topics. That’s it. They’re willing and proud to “hurt” and “bully” and “suicide bait” real people over fanfiction which is obviously Not Okay, but that’s why they use loaded language like this to make themselves sound better.

40 minutes ago

Antis and pro shippers are NOT “equally toxic”. Antis will try to use anecdotal evidence of “Look, this one shipper finally...

wow tumblr, thanks for finally getting back to me after I already figured out the issue for myself and fixed it.

Good to know support is still completely fucking useless.

1 hour ago

wow tumblr, thanks for finally getting back to me after I already figured out the issue for myself and fixed it. Good to know...

4 hours ago

Tenko is worst best girl

7 hours ago

I've been told that it's the evil fujoshi's fault why straight males are afraid to be affectionate with their friends and why...

tfw you gently open the door

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8 hours ago

tfw you gently open the door

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YoRHa No. 2 Type B from NieR Automata  LGBT+ Pride Icons  Gay/LGBT Pride  Asexual Pride  Lesbian Pride  Transgender Pride ...
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9 hours ago

YoRHa No. 2 Type B from NieR Automata LGBT+ Pride Icons Gay/LGBT Pride Asexual Pride Lesbian Pride Transgender Pride ...

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princess luigi! 💚

9 hours ago

princess luigi! 💚

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i - buki! mio - da! put it together and whaddya get?! ibuki mioda!
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18 hours ago

i - buki! mio - da! put it together and whaddya get?! ibuki mioda!

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The canon LGBT+ character of today is:  Ibuki Mioda from Super Dangan Ronpa 2 who is bi

18 hours ago

The canon LGBT+ character of today is: Ibuki Mioda from Super Dangan Ronpa 2 who is bi

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The canon LGBT+ character of today is:  Juzo Sakakura from Dangan Ronpa 3: The End of Hope’s Peak Academy who is gay.

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The canon LGBT+ character of today is: Juzo Sakakura from Dangan Ronpa 3: The End of Hope’s Peak Academy who is gay.

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The canon LGBT+ character of today is:  Mikan Tsumiki from Super Dangan Ronpa 2 who is bisexual

18 hours ago

The canon LGBT+ character of today is: Mikan Tsumiki from Super Dangan Ronpa 2 who is bisexual

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The canon LGBT+ character of today is:  Tenko Chabashira from New Dangan Ronpa V3 who is bisexual

18 hours ago

The canon LGBT+ character of today is: Tenko Chabashira from New Dangan Ronpa V3 who is bisexual

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ksjsksjksd icon dump

like/rb if saved/used 👉👈

18 hours ago

ksjsksjksd icon dump like/rb if saved/used 👉👈

20 hours ago

If you haven't already answered these, 1. My favorite m/f ship, and 3. My favorite m/m ship?

20 hours ago

🎵 Junko Enoshima

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Pink Lucoa icons for @coconutminadukis

I hope these are okay!

Again, sorry for the wait hh.

-Mod Monaca(Tohru)

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20 hours ago

Pink Lucoa icons for @coconutminadukis I hope these are okay! Again, sorry for the wait hh. -Mod Monaca(Tohru)

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Summer Lucoa by · Axsens ·

21 hours ago

Summer Lucoa by · Axsens ·

Do you ever see a take that’s just so unbelievably awful that you sincerely hope the person who posted it was a troll?

22 hours ago

Do you ever see a take that’s just so unbelievably awful that you sincerely hope the person who posted it was a troll?

You guys do know that you don’t need to message me every single time there’s an update with the riots, right?

22 hours ago

You guys do know that you don’t need to message me every single time there’s an update with the riots, right?

22 hours ago

Actually I heard (just correcting you not defending him) he was a someone who just abuse his power. Also there were complaints...

22 hours ago

Yasss finally the murderous officers that killed George Floyd will finally be facing justice! I hope they get convicted!

22 hours ago

It always makes me lol whenever antis constantly reblog from TERFS and homophobes without seeming to notice the obvious...

23 hours ago

Remember the time when antis blogged a post about how fujoshis ruined bromance and the post turned out to be written by a...

23 hours ago

That’s how Kyle Broflovski’s voice sounds like before final edits. Found inside TFBW files. 

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The Amazing Spider-Man #67 (1968)

23 hours ago

The Amazing Spider-Man #67 (1968)

Oh joy, more ACAB discourse in my notifications. Just what I wanted.

23 hours ago

Oh joy, more ACAB discourse in my notifications. Just what I wanted.

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When your father shows interest in what your doing

1 day ago

When your father shows interest in what your doing

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Stop putting this on my dash
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1 day ago

Stop putting this on my dash

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i love this website

1 day ago

i love this website