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also speaking of jakub różalski this painting of his is my FAVOURITE like yes girl snitch on the knight!!! get his ass!!!

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also speaking of jakub różalski this painting of his is my FAVOURITE like yes girl snitch on the knight!!! get his ass!!!

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Never let generosity hold hostages; courtesy is an essential tool, but a cruel master.

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Never let generosity hold hostages; courtesy is an essential tool, but a cruel master.

PolyNein is life, they all love each other and it’s valid of them. They all deserve happiness in their life and that’s beautiful goddammit!!

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PolyNein is life, they all love each other and it’s valid of them. They all deserve happiness in their life and that’s beautiful...

Hot girls sleep with stuffed animals

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Hot girls sleep with stuffed animals

No doctor will ever get my respect like the woman in the ER who checked me for claws and fangs because I told her I was turning into a werewolf and could feel it and let me know gently that she couldn’t find any but that didnt make it feel any less real, like THATS how you do it, other doctors who just flat out told me I was wrong take notes

This is how you treat us!

i am reblogging this as someone who does not have delusions and often makes shitposts about werewolves, and i just want all my followers to know this is not a joke!

i am so glad you had this positive experience, and i hope this sort of kindness catches on with doctors and the general public.

Look when someone is in a confused or compromised state, no matter why,

and they are your medical charge,

it is vital to continue to treat them with dignity. Like that. Reassure them with visible practicalities that you acknowledge their fears, will not belittle them, and can show them facts to help them cope.

THAT is the proper compassion of a Healer.

Can I just add that, if you like me have delusions where everything bad that happens is your fault, the doctor shouldn’t be like “Yeah, you’re probably right” but try to reason with you in a respective way. OP’s doctor did it right, but some of the notes make it look like people think delusions must be agreed to always, when doing so can be detrimental to the person’s wellbeing

This is my favorite addition to this post because it’s true. When dealing with delusions you need to avoid the extremes - DO NOT tell the person flat out “you’re wrong”, “thats not real” or worst of all “you’re crazy.”BUT DON’T ENCOURAGE THE DELUSION EITHER!Let’s take my werewolf delusion, for example. Doctors who have flat out told me “that isn’t real” haven’t helped because for me it is real and no amount of you saying it isn’t will change my perception. It makes us feel alienated.

But someone saying “You ARE transforming into a werewolf but i have a poition thatll stop it! :D” is just as dangerous because you’re furthering a delusion which could get someone hurt. its also manipulative. we’re psychotic, not children.

So what DO you do? Acknowledge that the situation is frightening. If possible, give them the objective facts (ie, i don’t see any monsters; your mom hasn’t said anything to make it seem like she’s going to kill you) while also acknowledging that for them, it is real. Most of all, ask what you can do to keep them comfortable and safe.

Sorry for the long addition but when I made this post it didn’t occur to me apsychotic people would look at it for advice on how to handle an actively delusional person. I’m glad it’s resonating with people, though

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No doctor will ever get my respect like the woman in the ER who checked me for claws and fangs because I told her I was turning...

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Actually I think they’ll be ok 🙃

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Actually I think they’ll be ok 🙃

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this is no joke. i looked around the reviews of several different candles just in case it could’ve been a single bad batch but...

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this is no joke. i looked around the reviews of several different candles just in case it could’ve been a single bad batch but...

this might be controversial but if i came across a beaker of glowing green liquid i would give it a little taste

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this might be controversial but if i came across a beaker of glowing green liquid i would give it a little taste

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there are many young merfolk out there, so i felt the desire to create a badass elder for mermay :) she’s as much derived from...

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there are many young merfolk out there, so i felt the desire to create a badass elder for mermay :) she’s as much derived from...

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@conniferuswhite made a GORGEOUS design of Steela Gerrera as a senator and I just had to draw it🥺 go check out her art for more...

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@conniferuswhite made a GORGEOUS design of Steela Gerrera as a senator and I just had to draw it🥺 go check out her art for more...

i care three men

caduceus clay, fjord stone, and essek thelyss

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i care three men caduceus clay, fjord stone, and essek thelyss

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So like when are they gonna kiss

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So like when are they gonna kiss

well fellas i just found out about the term ‘thermian argument’ and holy shit is this gonna make it easier for me to shut down certain talking points

unsurprisingly there are a LOT of fandombrained people very VERY upset by this term lmfao

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The thermian argument is a logical fallacy that occurs when a question or criticism concerning the political statements that can be gleaned from a game or other work of art are countered instead with an in-universe explanation for why the thing being criticized is actually valid.

i cant read can someone explain this in a different way so it makes sense (if u don’t mind)

@fandomfishbish it’s like when female superheroes are drawn with almost zero clothing or armor, especially compared to male superheroes with the same powers, and people try to defend it by insisting that the in-universe explanation (like, that she’s solar powered, so she needs sunlight on her skin to use her powers) makes it okay, even though it was a real human man who decided to draw her that way.

Someone does something gross, and people use the story to defend the gross person’s real world actions and decisions.

Like, if I were to write a story about werewolves that says that any woman who gets bitten by a werewolf dies screaming in horrible agony, because women are weak and fragile and only men are Tough Enough™ to be werewolves, someone using the thermian argument would say that it’s not misogynistic of me to write that, because “women are too weak to survive being bitten! That’s just the way it is! It can’t be helped!”

As though the story controls me, and not the other way around, as though I, a real life person, hadn’t made the conscious decision to brutally murder all the women who get bitten by a werewolf.

Hope that helps!

I just want to expand that it’s not just that some man decided to draw the superhero lady with her tits and entire ass out, he also set up the universe so that she needs sunlight on her skin for her powers. She could get her power from anything, the sun’s gravity, a radioactive whatever, maybe still sunlight but she can absorb it through her hair, or her costume is made of UV permeable fabric. The Thermian argument ignores that the writer set up not only the sexist/racist/offensive thing, but also the in-universe reason that said thing had to happen. The fact that there’s an in-universe explanation doesn’t help because they also made the rules of the universe

I believe Dan Olson- who is on Youtube as ‘Folding Ideas’- came up with this! It’s a wonderful argument and he’s a really cool guy who deserves more love.

Go watch Dan’s videos, whether he did this or not, he’s a very smart funny guy with some really good thoughts.

I was reading the first post and was queuing up his video as I worked my way down! He’s amazing. 

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well fellas i just found out about the term ‘thermian argument’ and holy shit is this gonna make it easier for me to shut down...

Can we just… normalize teens loving their parents? Like obviously you’re not obligated to if your parents are shitty, but damn, I love my mom. She’s there for me all the time and sure we have rough patches but honestly she’s the greatest. Like. We need teens to know that they don’t have to hate their parents just cause.

It must be nice to come from a nonabusive family. One that doesn’t traumatized every emotional interaction to the point where you drive away any sign of love as a form of manipulation because that’s all that you were raised with. 🤷‍♀️

It is.

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but loving ur parents is already normalized and its the kids w/ abusive parents that actually have to deal with misunderstandings and ignorance from others regarding this topic.

Hey there, I’m talking about the trope where it’s seen as super uncool to like your parents that was literally pushed on teens through the media since the culture shift in the early 60s. The post has nothing to do with abusive parents. I was abused as a kid and honestly if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse this has been a psa

“if the trope where teens have to hate their parents to be cool died, then kids with actual abusive parents would have an easier time recognizing abuse”

Teen with abusive parents: I hate my parents

Teen influenced by society: Me too mine are the worst

The takeaway for teen 1: This is normal and it’s supposed to be this way

The takeaway for teen 2: My friend’s parents are like mine

The takeaway for any adult listening: All kids who complain about their parents are just being rebellious

this is important

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Can we just… normalize teens loving their parents? Like obviously you’re not obligated to if your parents are shitty, but damn,...

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im anxious so i can draw whatever i want
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im anxious so i can draw whatever i want

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you hear me: homosexuality is inclusive of nonbinary people. nonbinary isn’t a ‘third gender’ and there are so many different...

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you hear me: homosexuality is inclusive of nonbinary people. nonbinary isn’t a ‘third gender’ and there are so many different...

"Shouldn't the man who invented the iPhone own his own creation?"

An explanation by anti-capitalist brad pitt.

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"Shouldn't the man who invented the iPhone own his own creation?" An explanation by anti-capitalist brad pitt.

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o’ eden, a dream I had
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o’ eden, a dream I had

thanksgiving is a holiday based on a falsified narrative full of white guilt and the erasure of history so what are some good native organizations to donate to this coming thursday

organizations recommended by @loneghostkid 

native american rights fund heyday berkely roundhouse news from native california magazine national indian child welfare association california indian legal services the national indigenous women’s resource center

please also consider looking into funding native/tribal food sovereignty projects if you have food to donate or money to spare. friends, please add more if you know of them and have links to provide:

native american food sovereignty alliance meskwaki food sovereignty initiative friends of pine ridge reservation first nations development institute

you can also buy food/gifts from indigenous sellers or donate to gofundme fundraisers made by indigenous people who need help getting groceries, paying medical bills, or paying rent. do something to help us and our communities.

try water projects too, like the navajo water project: https://www.navajowaterproject.org/

Navajo Water Project Help DigDeep bring clean, running water to hundreds of American families. Nearly 40% of Navajo don't have a tap or toilet at home. We can fi Navajo Water Project

a lot of reservations are fucked over on water by illegal oil drilling, pipelines, or other breaches, like in the navajo rez’s case: contaminated by illegal uranium mining.

I would like to put my endorsement to the Sovereign Bodies Institute, home of the database of Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. The database is trans-inclusive, the data protocols follow the desires of the families of MMIW, and this holiday season, they are collecting donations to buy gifts for the families, especially the children, of missing and murdered women. 

I’d like to add Feeding Nunavut, the cost of living in the isolated north for Inuit is up to and sometimes over 5x the prices the rest of Canada is used to.

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thanksgiving is a holiday based on a falsified narrative full of white guilt and the erasure of history so what are some good...

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This video somehow pinpoints my exact sense of humor

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This video somehow pinpoints my exact sense of humor

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Mer!Tiefs aka being crazy with colors   💥  [Ko-fi | Redbubble | Twitter ] can be found in Bio.    
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Mer!Tiefs aka being crazy with colors 💥  [Ko-fi | Redbubble | Twitter ] can be found in Bio.    

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GDBee on Instagram / Tumblr / Society6

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Every time I see news coverage of a protest I remember this image of a single overturned trashcan in front of The Washington...

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Every time I see news coverage of a protest I remember this image of a single overturned trashcan in front of The Washington...

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all them boys! so glad i did them all!
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all them boys! so glad i did them all!

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more casual schmidt bc i deserve it

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more casual schmidt bc i deserve it

love triangles can’t exist without at least 1 lgbt person. cishets just don’t know how shapes work

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I’ve created this helpful info graphic

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love triangles can’t exist without at least 1 lgbt person. cishets just don’t know how shapes work